Pramod Mehta The incorrigible friend I last met in 1969 or thereabouts. Tall (not a six-footer like me, though), handsome, with his deceptively innocent good looks, fluent talker who could charm his many friends and acquaintances. Women found him irresistible. His peccadilloes with some of them tended to land me, his constant companion during those heady days, in trouble while he himself walked away smiling mischievously, with me holding the baby as it were, pardon the mixed metaphor.
This promises to be
a longish post, but before I proceed further with the story, will Mr Pramod S
Mehta, please come forward and let me know where he is today, is he still
in Canada where he moved in the1960s? This is a desperate call to him, as I have
failed in my attempts so far to trace him.
I first met Pramod
at Vivekananda College, Mylapore, where we both did our Pre-University Course
in the1963-’64 academic year. Weremained in touch over the next few years, but
the period from 1966 to 1970—before he left India for Canada—was when we spent
a great deal of time together, often at the Adyar Library inside the vast
grounds of the Theosophical Society. This is where I discovered a priceless
collection of crime fiction donated by J Krishnamurti amidst all the great
works of literature and the rare manuscripts of ancient eastern wisdom most of
the international visitors there came to pore over in the rarest silences I had
come across. Pramod was a prolific reader, too, but he also found the time to
befriend—and charm—some of the many women who descended on Adyar as delegates
to the annual Convention of the TS. One of them, an older woman, was so
impressed with Pramod’s wit, intelligence and intellect that she took him along
with her on an overseas trip.
Let me fast forward
to end 1968. I had discontinued my MA at Presidency College midway through my
first year to be with my parents who were both ill in Calcutta. By the time
they were better, it was too late me for me to go back to college. With my
father’s help, I even joined Rajasthan Club to play in the local cricket league,
doing well enough to be regarded as a Bengal prospect in the Ranji Trophy in
the foreseeable future. But just when it seemed Calcutta would be my permanent
home, my college teammates and our Physical Director prevailed on the principal
to waive my attendance requirements and allow me to rejoin college in the
second year, carrying the three first year papers I had missed. The fact that I
had captained the college team for two seasons and hadn’t done too badly
academically helped.
Back in Madras and
tasked with finding a tenant for our house—with parents and sisters away in
Calcutta—I had the unmitigated pleasure of Pramod’s company as he moved into
our house with me. With a couple of months to go before college reopened, I was
an unwitting accomplice, and often unsuspecting victim of the constant flow of pranks
my friend conjured up. To give you the most spectacular sample, we both saw a
morning show at Blue Diamond--part of arguably India’s first multiplex—the continuous
performance theatre you could enter and leave at any time you liked, watching
the same movie repeatedly for the price of one show.
We left Blue
Diamond around 1 pm when Pramod said, “Do you want to see The Guns of San
Sebastian starring Anthony Quinn at Anand (another Mount Road cinema)?” I said
I had only two rupees in my pocket, barely enough for the bus fare home. “Don’t
worry, I’ll take care of it,” he assured me. He then marched us to a nearby
PCO, from where he called his friend Shanti, a fellow Gujarati. “Shanti, you
are treating my friend Ram and me to this matinee show at Anand. And you are
bringing another girl with you.”
To say I was
stunned by the turn of events would be an understatement. Shanti and her friend
Nimmi, a pretty young girl just out of school, actually took us to the movie.
Normally shy, I was even more tongue-tied than usual. To make things even more
challenging, Pramod, now encouraged by his success, introduced me to the ladies
as an impoverished poet from Calcutta now in Chennai in search of a job so that
I would not die of starvation. I looked the part all right, with my days-old
stubble, unkempt hair and crumpled kurta-pyjamas. Caught off-guard, I looked
straight ahead at the screen avoiding any sideways glances at my neighbour.
Nimmi then dropped a bombshell during the interval, asking me to recite one of
my poems. Desperate to get out of the situation, I managed to recall some lines
from The Road Not Taken by Robert Frost, mainly because the late Prime Minister
Jawaharlal Nehru had been fond of quoting from it the line: “I have promises to
keep…And miles to go before I sleep.” Nimmi gave no sign of recognising the poem,
and I breathed a sigh of relief.
College reopened a
month later—our house had been let out to Australian born Jim Foley, a jockey
and trainer who spent a few years in Madras—and I entered its portals with
great excitement and anticipation. And guess whom I run into first thing?
Nimmi! Shocked beyond words, she asked: “What are you doing here?” I blurted
out that with my job-search yielding no results, my parents had forced me to go
back to studies. I knew of course that she would before long find out I was in
II MA, not in the first year, but I had survived the present crisis.
The worst was yet to
come. Not only was Nimmi a BA English Literature joinee, she was a classmate
and close friend of Gowri, now my wife of 56 years. Sure enough, she warned
Gowri against me as soon as she found out that the two of us were seeing each
other. What touching faith Gowri must have had in me not to heed her best
friend’s warning!
Here is a shoutout
to both Pramod and Nimmi, wherever you are.